This summer is weird, isn’t it? We normally see friends and family, go to the beach (most years), eat out at favorite restaurants, have drinks and fun with friends, have treats, attend church services, visit special friends, and are active along with our down time.
This year being part of a pandemic, things are different. We now wear masks when we go out, on the few occasions that happens. We are only getting food at the grocery store, as take-out or through the drive-thru and making quick trips to the drug store. We aren’t going to church but instead are watching services online. Also, we aren’t seeing very many people.
Life is not totally awful since we are homebodies and always have plenty to keep us busy. Still, the length of time where life has been so different does take its toll. So, we keep in touch with Zoom calls and meetings, textings, phone calls, dinners at home, and seeing neighbors while outside on walks.
We are not going out and doing as much as some of our loved ones and that is by choice. I am trying to keep us healthy and listening to the doctors and medical professionals. We are doing about the same as many of our loved ones. That is good since we are in this together but usually apart.
We are visiting family in North Carolina this summer but have mainly been at the house keeping busy with work. We always visit a few friends but that is not happening this year since they are in the high-risk groups. That is a bummer but we totally understand.
We like shopping at a favorite toy store each year. This time was different since they are booking appointments to have one family shop at a time. Also, masks are required for the entire time in the store. My thanks to them for that option in which I felt safe while shopping. A rare feeling these days.
I have friends and family who are going out and doing a lot more that we are. That is okay for them if they feel comfortable doing so. I, however, do not. At least not yet. As a single parent, I am doing all I can to keep myself and my son healthy. And, I have a few risk factors to keep in mind.
There is so much stress and awfulness happening right now. It is often hard to deal with. I am praying, trying to meditate to calm my mind, exercising, listening to music, reading my Bible and devotionals, trying to get enough sleep, talking with loved ones, and trying to eat well.
Still the doubts, worries, and concerns are there. We all have to do the best we can right now. I just hope and pray that we can help one another and support each other, rather than bringing harm to our loved ones.
With all of the uncertainties in the world, I am thankful for a few things:
- Remotely watching my nephew’s high school graduation and seeing him receive his diploma. We were there in spirit!!
- Watching my son build new Lego sets
- Enjoying my son having time with his grandparents
- Savoring a favorite meal that we have picked up or prepared
- Shopping at the grocery store and choosing a delicious tomato
- Having the option to order food online and then pick it up or have it delivered
- Finding books at a used bookstore
- Walks, bike/trike rides, and fresh air
- Eating an almond strudel from a favorite bakery with a glass of cold milk
- The anticipation of seeing Hamilton: The Musical online in the next week
- Dinners with my parents and time to chat with them
- Seeing loved ones and chatting with them online
- Laughing with my siblings, cousins, aunt, nieces and nephews, and others during online chats
- Working at home on a flexible schedule – a real blessing
- Getting to know our neighbors and their new dog while social distancing outside
- Listening to my son’s first D&D game online with family – he had a great time
- Sitting on our front porch in the evening and chatting
- Laughing with my son during an episode of Psych
- Chatting for a long time with my son on many topics
- Hearing about what our loved ones are doing
- Having time to read a great book or watch a movie
I hope and pray that things will improve soon and the numbers of illness will go down. I pray that people will be kind to one another and stop judging the wearing of a mask or not. It is not political, but a health care choice that each of us have to make. At least it shouldn’t be political.
I pray that my loved ones continue to stay healthy. I really want to see them again and give them a hug. Again, not sure when that will be but I am hopeful. I pray that there can be real healing with all of us no matter our race, religion, education, profession, family situation or who we love. I hope and pray that the violence and racism will stop.
I pray that we have peace, respect for one another, and treat each other with kindness. I pray that we learn from one another and listen to each other. I pray that our differences stop being hindrances and stop causing problems. I pray that we take care of one another and build one another up. I pray that we always, always love.