Do ethics still matter or are they something to be set aside when we feel like it. Are they ethics or ethics smethics? I think they do matter. I also think they are important to teach to children. Yet, many adults no longer seem to feel they are important. And, that is troubling.
Merriam-Webster’s dictionary defines ethics as:
- a set of moral principles : a theory or system of moral values
- the principles of conduct governing an individual or a group
- a guiding philosophy
- a consciousness of moral importance
Wow, some big concepts about how to act, how to treat others, and how to live our lives. Yet who and what determines our ethics? I feel that our faiths, morals, and values are a large factor, as well as what we were taught growing up. Our experiences and our own internal values also are a part.
Treating others as we want to be treated used to be a good gauge of our ethics and morals. Yet today, we seem to hate, to distrust, and lie to each other without thought or question. We have leaders who are doing the same. We seem to not think twice about cutting someone’s feelings to the bone and causing them pain.
We seem to think we are better than each other. And, some even think they are above the law, above reproach, and above questioning. Yet, should anyone be exempt from treating someone kindly and fairly and with respect? Should anyone be above reproach or questioning? I don’t think so.
Is it right and ethical of a political party to not investigate something just because it was allegedly done by the same party? I think not. Saying so is turning a blind eye to something that could be very wrong and harmful.
Is it right to hate someone who believes a different religion than we do, or looks different than we do, or has less money than we do, or loves in a way that we don’t understand? I think not to this as well.
Hate crimes have been going on for years. I don’t like them and often don’t understand them and I want them to stop. Unless we can replace this hate and distrust with love and learning to trust, I don’t know how we can change.
Children love without question and without prejudice. They are taught how to hate, how to distrust, and often how to lie. They can and should instead be taught how to love, how to trust, and how to know and tell the truth.
A few things I want for us to do:
- May we learn to be kind to each other
- May we discern what is right and what is wrong
- May we not listen to people trying to convince us that lies are the truth
- May we stand up for what we believe without tearing each other down
- May we ask questions and seek the truth
- May we discern what we are being told to believe
- May we live ethical lives
- May we teach our children to love
- May we always love
I wonder if we can be ethical and live with love and respect? My earnest prayer is that we can. I know that we can; I just hope that we will.