In the movie Steel Magnolias, Truvy says, “Laughter through tears is my favorite emotion.”
That is a bit how the weekend was. We had the celebration of my grandmother’s life and the following day found out we lost one of our dear sweet family members.
How does one’s mind get around such extremes — of happiness and then sadness? I don’t know the exact answer and so wish that I did!!
Grams’ party was a lot of fun and she loved my blog that I’d written. My cousin read a really nice poem and then a funny one, gifts were opened, and great food and cake were enjoyed as well. It was a great evening.
Then the news of the loss. Losing a loved one is always difficult. Crying and prayers and hugs and love are about all I know of to do in times like this.
I saw a picture this morning on Facebook that resulted in some tears — “I wish there were visiting hours in Heaven.” How I wish that were true! And, how I wish I could visit our loved one.
There is an expression, “time heals all wounds.” How much time? With some losses it feels like that will take a very long time to be true, if ever. Another is “take it a day at a time.” On some days, that could be changed to “take it a minute at a time.”
I found some quotes about sadness, loss, and happiness:
- “Tears are God’s gift to us. Our holy water. They heal us as they flow.” ~Rita Schiano”
- “I don’t know why they call it heartbreak. It feels like every other part of my body is broken too.” ~Missy Altijd
- “If I had a single flower for every time I think about you, I could walk forever in my garden.” ~Claudia Ghandi
- “I dropped a tear in the ocean. The day you find it is the day I will stop missing you.” ~Author Unknown
- “Happiness is never stopping to think if you are.” ~Palmer Sondreal
- “The best way to cheer yourself up is to try to cheer somebody else up.” ~Mark Twain
Lord, please hold my family close and watch over us. Hugs and love to my family.